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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Re: Fictional/Real Projections
« on: February 19, 2019, 02:29:44 AM »
great advice paul.

thank you, that makes much more sense.

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Fictional/Real Projections
« on: February 13, 2019, 03:50:28 PM »
my question is,

to which degree is it possible to create characteristics from fictional or real people we project stuff into.

for example.

if I admire a fictional character from movies or pop culture such as Tony Stark (iron man).


can I create characteristics that I project into him with PQT?

for example:

instead of using the statement:

- "I am very confident"

saying:

- "I am as confident and charismatic as tony stark".


or

"I am as adventurous as indiana jones".

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Confused and Not Sure Where to Start / Re: Success with women
« on: February 04, 2019, 10:30:25 PM »
Try to ask yourself these 2 questions until you reveal all your negative beliefs about it.

Then apply CT2015 and Belief blasters on them

1. What beliefs must a person have who experiences or lives with an unpleasant reality or who lives through an unpleasant experience?

2. What is necessary for a person to succeed in a field or activity in which s/he is unsuccessful?

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Beliefs about resistence
« on: January 23, 2019, 11:55:51 AM »
Personally I think resistence it is a meta issue when it comes to using PSTEC.

Resisting emotions leads to the majority of problems.

Which beliefs about resistance do y'all recommend to work on to become more resilient and able to feel instead of blocking ourselves to painful experiences?

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Re: Handling the future
« on: January 22, 2019, 11:42:28 AM »
awesome brian! thank you for your input.

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Handling the future
« on: January 20, 2019, 01:34:15 PM »
I realized that after doing PQT sometimes I am afraid that I won't be this way in the future.

For this I recommend always asking yourself.

Could this [belief statement] will be still possible in the future?

If the answer is YES dont bother. but if the answer is NO, reformulate your belief to be able for you in future. for example

I am always successful in my daily life

For the future will be

I will always be successful in my daily life in the future

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remember what buddha said: whatever you resist, persists!

and also christ: do not resist evil!

i would go ahead and do some BB on the metastructure of your problem, which has a super ego nature (culture impossitions):

- sex was bad/wrong
- thinking about sex was bad/wrong
- wanting to have sex was bad/wrong
- desiring women sexually was bad/wrong
- having sex with women was bad/wrong
- i was bad/wrong for wanting sex.
- i was bad/wrong for having sex
- fucking women was bad/wrong
- having tons of sex with women was bad/wrong

and add some PQT to that

- sex is always good and a beautiful thing
- having sex is always good for me from now on
- having sexual desires is always natural and OK to me

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Hi Brian.

Is it ok to change "I'm" for "I feel" in the suggestions?

Thank you

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Belief Blasters / Re: Super Ego beliefs
« on: November 28, 2018, 08:51:08 PM »
awesome additions to it.

thank you paul.

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Belief Blasters / Super Ego beliefs
« on: November 27, 2018, 02:13:31 PM »
hey. i discovered that a great way to frame beliefs and stuff thay keeps you from expressing your potential is:

- was bad.
- was wrong.

for example

"being happy was wrong"

"being agressive was wrong"

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Relationships and Rejection / Re: Not being able to trust
« on: November 27, 2018, 02:10:00 PM »
thanks a lot brian. your help always goes right to the point

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Relationships and Rejection / Not being able to trust
« on: November 24, 2018, 08:34:01 PM »
I have a girlfriend who I really like and I can relate a lot (thanks pstec).

But sometimes I notice she hides stuff from their family and acts in weird ways (hiding information, not being 100% honest) which makes me untrust her.

For example, I percieve that she deletes chats from her cellphone talking to guys and then acts as if nothing happened.

I don't know what to do in this situation. If I can't trust her I shouldn't be in a relationship, but I don't know how much of this untrust feelings come from my own projections.

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Re: Loneliness and Rejection
« on: November 05, 2018, 06:02:38 PM »
thank you brian. great advice to implement right now

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Re: Loneliness and Rejection
« on: November 03, 2018, 07:51:28 PM »
thank you for your elaborated answer paul. i will update when i finish with your advice.

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PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / Loneliness and Rejection
« on: November 02, 2018, 12:55:39 PM »
this is a major issue for me.

i've been doing PSTEC on a daily basis for 7 months and I still have lots of irrational fears related to being abandoned or left alone.

so, I project this a lot into relationships, I expect others to fulfill my needs to feel safe around them, I expect them to be there for me always, and if not, i get really upset, dissapointed and angry.

there's always the fear that they will leave me in the back of my mind.

I suspect this is because I had very narcissistic parents that used love and afection as a condition to make me do what they wanted me to do, instead of giving it away unconditionally.

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