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Belief Blasters / love / loss / fear
« on: June 19, 2018, 11:07:55 AM »
So just when you think years of inner work, healing modalities and counseling has addressed "everything" another layer is there!

Short version: I ran the BB on two beliefs this morning and had emotion around them so would it be best to use one of the CT (I own almost everything) and run that on the present tense statement? Then do the BB again?

My Dad used to leave us every year, my Mom would leave and at times they'd both leave my younger brother and I alone for days (so I have some fears in romantic relationships I am SO frigging ready to let go of!).

I ran: I've been afraid of someone I love leaving me; I've been afraid of a man I love leaving me.

The other "loss" beliefs were from when my Dad used his favorite punishment which was taking away privileges, favorite personal items etc. The biggee around this for me is that when I was 14 and brother 10 we got separated, him getting adopted by another family and me living in a series of homes. He was like my child and even as I type this it HURTS and I feel very emotional about that. I never got to see him for a long time because his new family said he was theirs -- he was like my child, I looked after us for years.

So I ran: I've been afraid of having something I love taken away from me.

What CT would be appropriate and what do I say (especially about losing my brother) or do I just think about how much it hurts? For some reason I'm not really thinking clearly on how to use PSTEC for this right now.

Forgot to add: where I'm aiming is using PQT on "It is safe for me to be in love"

Thank you!

With HUGE appreciation,


PSTEC Positive Quantum Turbo / any downside to fearless?
« on: June 01, 2018, 10:13:12 AM »
Hello Brian and Paul -

While I've been making great progress in my business I "notice" I still hang back a bit when it comes to reaching out to new prospects. I've enough NLP training to know I have some beliefs that are impacting this aspect of the sales process.

Am curious about beliefs around being fearless - as in, I am fearless when I call people about my product. (I tend to mostly use 'I am" statements)

Pretty sure I won't tell people off cuz I'm fearless ((grin)) and yet am wondering if there would be a downside to this belief? I'd actually love to be fearless in business and in life and around money!

To clarify - I'm more interested in the fearless aspect for "not scared or nervous/afraid" than I am about being ballsy and bold - although that would probably help

Thank you for your thoughts!

with appreciation,


Belief Blasters / fears and phrasing
« on: October 05, 2017, 03:45:59 PM »
Hello All -

While I know the idea is also to get "under" the fear (as in, why would something be causing the fear?) I'm wondering if a simple "I've been afraid of _____" is effective and a good place to start? Or even, "I've been worried that _____"

I haven't seen any 'set up' phrase like that, just a lot of "I couldn't have been" and "I haven't been" etc. type statements.

Curious as

Thank you!

With appreciation,


Success with PSTEC and PSTEC Positive / PPE to deepen a belief?
« on: September 23, 2017, 08:54:07 AM »
Hello -

Perhaps I need to use the Belief Blasters on "I find the PSTEC forum very confusing and hard to navigate"

Having said that I'm rather bored with the BB and when looking through my PSTEC file and all the programs I've purchased came across Positive Secrets and Positive Extra. Have been enjoying using PE immensely!

Question: what about using PE to enhance a belief we have and yet would like to believe even more deeply ... a random example for me would be "I love to exercise" (which I do!)

Where I feel PE would be of benefit is on some self-love type statements which for the most part we may "consciously" believe and yet unconsciously may not have total buy in. Random example "I am a wonderful person" ...some days yes and some days, not so much, right?  Or "I find it easy to....", "It is easy for me to ....." that type of belief - to enhance a more positive outlook on some areas of life.

Since our perception creates our experience of life my thinking (no pun intended) is that the PE would allow for/open us up to an even greater experience.

Thank you!

With appreciation,


Belief Blasters / "able to" ???
« on: September 07, 2017, 07:05:12 PM »
Hi -

With a series of "I haven't been statements" a few that pop up have "able to" attached to them, as in "I haven't been able to _____".

I perhaps am not seeing the forest for the trees and yet 'when arguing for my limitations' adding the words 'able to' somewhat seem to cement that "truth" for me.  Not an example of a belief I'm blasting and yet what feels like a truth to me "I haven't been able to leave my residence for 14 days because of the hurricane".

Another I'm not using and yet very much which feels like a truth/fact is "I haven't been able to persuade my friend to fly to Fiji"

So I'm wondering if adding 'able to' is unwise given the way it possibly supports the belief?

Would love to hear your thoughts!

With appreciation,


Belief Blasters / "it" vs. "i"
« on: August 26, 2017, 10:21:15 AM »
Hello -

I've read through a ton of questions and as I'm exploring my beliefs to blast I find that some of them are framed (as in, how I say them to myself) as "It hasn't been easy to _____".

Most of the beliefs are stated as "i" statements such as: I haven't been etc.

Do the BB statements need to be in "i" tense or can we also apply "it"?

Thank you!

With appreciation,


Success with PSTEC and PSTEC Positive / positive extra for "experience"?
« on: November 07, 2014, 11:20:59 AM »
Jeff and Tim -

I'm wondering if this positive statement is too vague for any benefit - or if perhaps it is spot on to create what I want?

What about using the statement "I am experiencing huge success with ______"
could be making sales calls, exercise, as some of the guys are posting here - with dating etc.

It is very general and yet my belief is that (for me) since I'm choosing to embody certain beliefs it IS so I can have a certain experience so why not just also "believe" that I am indeed experiencing what it is I want?

Would love your input!

Thank you -

With appreciation,


Success with PSTEC and PSTEC Positive / writing out positive statement?
« on: November 07, 2014, 11:15:05 AM »
Hello -

The instructions for using Positive Extra say to hand write out our statement...if I'm using the statement more than once (as in, until I am feeling "of course this is true") do I write it out each time I do a PSTEC session or can I use the same piece of paper I've written the statement on?

Seems like a picky detail and yet I'd like to be clear on this point.

Thank you!

With appreciation,


Hello -

In the Positive Secrets document an example of a trigger suggestion is given:

When I (event) I will (action)

I'm curious about using the above to generate an internal "feeling" which I believe is an important part of the process of manifesting a desired outcome.


When I (event) arrive at the party, I will (action) feel fabulous

Jeff? Tim? What are your thoughts on using the trigger in this way?

I'm excited at the prospect of empowering feelings as well as beliefs  :D

With appreciation,


Hi -

There wasn't a topic "ticked right off at my Mom" so I'm not sure if this is even where to post anger issues?

My Mom has come to stay with me and either I am successful with PSTEC or I will tell her to leave. I am an adult (my Mom 70) and it is more irritation about having someone in my space/face 24/7 since I have been living on my own for 10+ years and loving it.

Is the most effective way to use the click track to play it while I scream inwardly everything I want to say to her? I've had plenty of counseling (many years ago) and follow LOA enough to know that I'm at choice about how I view the situation. Right now I cannot seem to shift from just being MAD!

Please advise the best use of PSTEC for this type of upset since it isn't a past memory or a future fear.

Thank you!

With much appreciation,


Miscellaneous and Other Topics / "How to" for practitioners?
« on: January 30, 2012, 05:59:58 PM »
Hello -

Am curious about adding this to my EFT practice...I've listened to the click track and am wondering if the download and exam teach us how to do this in person? or if we just play Tim's track for our client? (not excited about that option) Have I missed where we find out what being a PSTEC practitioner entails?

Thank you for your input!

My best,


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